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Straight? Or Bi?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Aria11, Jun 6, 2015.

  1. Aria11

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    Gender:
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    Sexual Orientation:
    Questioning
    Up until a couple months ago, I was fairly certain I was straight. Lately however, I've been thinking I might be bi. Does anyone have any advice, or tips about figuring my sexuality out?
     
  2. woahthatsboring

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    Well I think a great place to start is with the past!

    I know people usually say to move on :wink: but I find that personally, my past experiences told me the most about myself. If you find yourself very comfortable around women sexually that could be a clue, if you ever been a situation where there was "awkward tension" between you and woman that could also be a clue because it's not the normal tension and you should know what I'm talking about just from mentioning it, if you find yourself staring at women for more than 3 seconds and if you're basically attracted to their bodies.

    The process is a hard one if you're not honest with yourself. That's my biggest tip because I was stuck in denial and told myself I never had any experience with women but I did! I just choose not to acknowledge it.

    I focused mostly on women because you said you believed yourself to be bisexual which I assumed meant your feelings for men is pretty much concrete or you somewhat know what you're feeling towards them.

    Anyways, I hope this helped and good luck! :slight_smile: