Ok so I watch porn and it's usually straight porn but one time I came a cross some transsexual porn and got aroused now I'm questioning my sexuality I've never been attracted to men I've always only been attracted to women but all this has got me going crazy in real life all I do it think about women and masturbate to them but now Idk could I be gay or no in denial could my whole life be a lie I'm a 20 year old virgin btw and me wwatching transsexual porn has made me think I'm never gonna be the same again also when I was a kid I touched privates with one of my neighbors but I didn't get turned on but maybe that was a sign of me being gay Idk alot things have been going through my head lately like is this latent homosexuality im so depressed right now can somebody please help me :tears:
that could mean something, but not necessarily that you're gay if you read other threads around here, you'll find people (including me :lol: ) saying porn is not really a good indicator of sexuality.. there are even straight guys who watches gay porn maybe it's just the sexual vibe of the porn that turns you on, or maybe you are indeed attracted to the trans pornstars.. who knows.. well you know better than us only you can decide your sexuality.. are you only attracted to trans? are you attracted to males? females? all gender? you could also be attracted to different genders and sexes in romantic level only or sexual level only or both.. and hey, being attracted to the same sex doesn't mean you're exclusively gay, like you said you could be bi.. or at least "not straight" (that's a safer term).. or maybe you're in fact straight and just curious about that type of porn.. or why are we even using labels? human sexuality is just too broad but whatever it is, just know that being lgbtq is not a bad thing i don't know if this helps.. but anyways (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*) :thewave:
I've been attracted only to women all my life and a man has never turned me on ---------- Post added 7th Jun 2015 at 10:44 PM ---------- idk maybe im in denial but what does denial feel like
Could be, or it might not mean anything. But in real life, what are you attracted to? Girls or guys? Maybe both? Simply put, quit the porn for a while and let your mind go where it wants. When you masturbate with thoughts generated nth yourself, where do they go towards? And how easy is it to masturbate to those thoughts? If I tried masturbating about girls, I most certainly could, but it would be much harder since in real lifeb I'm not exactly attracted to them I'm that way.
I'm attracted to women in real life and when I masturbate I just think aboit women when I try to masturbate to men I can finish and I'm never erect
There are A LOT of porn videos out there. I've seen some pretty...interesting...ones. It's possible that you were just curious about the transexual porn that you watched. And I know a lot of people who can masturbate to just about any type of porn. Porn is a fantasy. It might be able to give you the slightest idea of what you like, but it is very different from reality. It doesn't really help decide your sexuality. I agree with the previous two posters Jax12 and m e l v i n.
Short answer: No. Porn is separate and not necessarily indicative of your sexual orientation. For example, I'm gay and I mostly watch straight and transsexual porn, but I consider myself gay.
well.. i never really experienced denial, idk how it feels like.. but i guess the more important thing to ask yourself is why do you wanna know? do you just want some assurance that you're straight? what if you're straight? or otherwise... ? just don't let this "confusion" drag you down to depression (of all things, don't let porn depress you >.< not that you should let anything do either), i hate seeing people down because of fears and pressures from the society (or from themselves ) about their sexuality.. keep liking what you like and loving who you love and try to be comfortable with it (*hug*) if you're straight, then great.. if you're not, it's not any less great
Labels are not necessary when it comes to porn IMHO. It doesn't matter. Just go by what you feel you are.
This doesn't sound gay at all. Porn doesn't define your sexuality (many straight women like lesbian porn for example) and transsexuals are women anyway, so It's still a straight attraction.
Tone, honestly, I think porn is probably not the best way to make decisions about your sexual orientation. It's about how you feel inside towards others and while some people experiment sexually with both genders, I don't think trying different porn tells a huge amount. I suspect most people regardless or gender or orientation could get off to a porn or any type if they tried. It might not be really their thing, but watching any type of sex will probably arouse you enough to get the job done. I think if you can be honest with yourself and open minded to the result you will be able to figure it out yourself, but you should be prepared for the fact that sexual orientation etc aren't binary, you aren't gay or straight, you are somewhere on a scale, and actually that scale is probably multi-dimensional. p.s. This could also come down to a fetish as well.
