I'm having a hard time distinguishing the two. why I'm thinking about asexuality? I can't remember the last time I looked at a girl and wanted to sleep with her, or got turned on at all. To clarify: If I crush on a girl, I just want to go on dates, bring her flowers, maybe kiss her, but that's it. But I still fantasize about sex sometimes? Can asexuals still like sex? I just don't feel any need to have it: no barely making it home to get pants off after seeing someone I fancy or suspiciously long showers. I've had a lot of changes to my life this year. I don't know if this is a result of those, or was there all along. :eusa_doh:
What you're describing is well within the normal range of normal sexual behavior. At least lf you're using the widely accepted and commonly used definition of asexuality, you aren't asexual. Unfortunately, a small group of people has hijacked the term to mean something it does not. I think in this case, the changes going on for you are likely having a temporary impact on your sex drive.
I actually agree with Chip on this one. Asexual means no sexual attraction to any gender, ever. Actually, what you describe is normal behavior to almost all sexuals. The oversexed thing where you need to rush home and take a cold shower is not normal. Most sexuals don't think about or desire sex all the time.
