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From Gay To Bi?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by iiimee, Jun 18, 2015.

  1. iiimee

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    Hey guys, Chase here. So recently I came out as bisexual, though I originally said I was gay when I started talking here I think... I wanted to know what you guys thought of this-

    So, when I first came here, I never felt ANY physical attraction to a chick, besides her face. (I've always found the faces of women preferable to those of men). However, I started dating a girl at my school at some point between me being on here and when I was taking a break from being on here... I was romantically attracted to her only, but after we broke up... I find myself becoming actually REALLY attracted to girls, when I've never felt that way before about girls, though I've always felt that way with guys. I mean, there's no mistaking I like both now, I suppose, but what do you guys think? Could this very well be a phase? Do orientations shift that dramatically, or was my attraction to chicks just not "awakened" or something? I also want to say, to clarify- I felt this way quite a while after I got over her, so it wasn't some sort of "attraction of somebody you can't have"... I still love guys... a lot. I have a boyfriend currently, and I am extremely attracted to guys... but now I'm equally attracted to chicks too, though I am the type of person who is only interested in one human at a time, so I'm fine. ^_^ But yeah... phase? awakening of attracting? Weird orientation shift? Somebody give me their insight to the world of bisexuality please!
     
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    Sexuality is fluid for some people and a fear barrier might have been broken down a little bit after following your heart.
     
  3. iiimee

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    Thanks :/ Whatever the reason, it's fact *shrugs* I'd still like to see what other people think of it though.
     
  4. Jax12

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    I've been thinking that I may be the same way as well. But then again I really don't give a shit about labels so I don't know.