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Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by ewx, Jun 18, 2015.

  1. ewx

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    Alright so this is my first post on here.I am a 13 yo guy and i am confused about my sexual and romantic orientation.I have been in two relationships and the one that was serious didnt last long becaus i am shy.I really liked the girl and is still think i have feelings for her.There are a couple girls at my school which i think that are hot but i dont think i have crushes on them because i dont have a chance.I do have fantasies about then though.As for guys,i have never been in a relationship with any of them but i do fantasize about them quite a bit just not as much as girls.I dont think i have any feelings for them romanticly either.As for porn i mostly watch straight porn and i have been watching cam girls for a while.It usually takes me longer to bust a nut on straight porn than on gay porn but i think its because i have been watching straight porn for a long time and i watch it alot.I still stay hard when watching straight porn just that it takes longer.The thing is that lately when i watch straight porn i think about a combination of fantisizing about having sex with a girl and a guy.When i think about having sex with a guy though i usually end up busting a nut.Im guessing that since i have only recently started watching gay porn seems more exciting.I remember when i first discovered porn i had the same feeling i did as when i discovered gay porn just not as strong.My question is that what sexual and romantic oreintation am i and if im bi do you think i sway more towards girls or guys.
     
  2. DreamerBoy17

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    So you don't romantically want to be with guys? It sounds to me like you definitely are into girls, it might take longer to get off on straight porn for you because you've been watching it a while and it isn't "interesting" anymore. For you, gay porn is new and more exciting. It seems like you might not be bi, you just are experimenting with new porn and it's confusing you. I would suggest trying to watch less because I've heard it can really mess with your mind in areas like this. Try fantasizing naturally and see what happens. In the end, only you can find yourself. Good luck! :slight_smile:
     
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    Hi. You're 13. Let yourself be attracted to whoever your attracted to and don't analyze everything. Sexuality is fluid and YOU'RE SO YOUNG that you have so much time to figure it out.
     
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    Take your time kid