Hi all just wanted to try get some help from people who may have been in the same situation as me. I came out as gay in 2013 but the labels gay, bi or straight never felt right to me I never felt comfortable in any of them lables but I didnt know why. I noticed when I was going through my early teenage years I never felt sexually attracted to people unless I had become close to them. But I didn't think their was a term for that, now I know it's demi-sexual if i am right. I believe I could be demi-sexual as I've tried having a one night stand which really did not work out as I could not become sexually aroused by this person. Its ruined a lot of my relationships before aswell as I just wasn't sexually aroused and the guys I met didn't understand so before I got chance to try connect to them they had left me as I couldn't please them. I honestly would prefer anything but sex with someone and I don't develop feelings for people fast it can take months before I feel attracted to someone. It's really confusing to me and i'm hoping someone can help!!:bang:
I've only really felt attracted to two people in my life. Both were best friends in high school, and I had a sexual relationship with both during that time. I married one of them, and I wish I could have the other. :/
