So I'm 26 years old and it's weird cause when I was 23 it's like a flip of a switch I started getting curious about dudes and experimented with oral once and liked it. Then I shook it off thinking it was a faze and started dating girls. The thing is I have been getting soft when I get intimate with them and have to think of a muscle guy with big hard c*** in my face to get hard again!is that weird? I don't know what to do about it? Any advice?
I'm not sure anymore I like to hangout with them and have good conversation but sexually I don't like to go down on them and am having hard time finishing cause I get soft!
Are you romantically interested in girls at all? Or do you just date them because you feel like you should be? Have you ever tried dating a man (not just sex, but an actual relationship)?
I use to be romantic but now I feel like I'm just trying to make it work with them cause that's the way it suppose to be. I've never dated a guy!
I'm interested to know how you felt and what your experience was before you were 23. I ask this, because you said: Am I to assume that you hadn't dated girls (or guys) up until that point? If so, what inclinations did you have, if any? I'm trying to understand why you saw it as a "flick of the switch" moment, if it was only then that you started dating girls. The fact that you enjoyed oral with a guy and you now need to conjure up a picture in your mind during sex may be indicative of your deeper feelings. It would be good to know more about your prior experience.
I should have said continued dating girl cause I dated girls in high school. I felt straight nothing out of the ordinary except when I was a teenager I would sneak into my moms room and wear her bra and panties but that's probably another issue. Then when I was 23 I never really entertain the idea of me being with another sure I thought about it a little but that as far as it went. Then a question popped into my head I wandered if a mans penis has a destict taste and smell then that lead to porn then to the situation I'm in now.
Ummmmm that's interesting. Are you in a relationship with a girl now? This might sound weird but, how about talking to her about it? Just confess that to her. I mean the fact that you envision a big cock in your face when you are having sex with her and that it gets you hard and enables you to finish. I don't know I just have the feeling that if I were in your shoes, that is what I would do. Not that it is wrong to experiment with guys again if u feel like it. I am just saying don't cheat. If u r with a girl that you love (even if it turns out that it is not actually romantic love) just confess ur homosexual concerns to her. Maybe she can be supportive.
Were not officially dating just friends at the moment. The funny thing is she told me her last boyfriend confessed to her that he was gay. She laughed about it and thought it was weird so i don't think she would appreciate me telling her my issues!
