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Trans (female) what is my orientation?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by The Purple One3, Jun 24, 2015.

  1. The Purple One3

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    Hello! So for at least a couple years I was asexual, but only in the sexual sense. I loved people in every way except sexually. That was a phase. Now I recently realized I might be a lesbian. Or I might be a... What is it called when you love any gender, but exclusively romantically? Or, I might be a mix between lesbian and that second one. I'm not really sure...
     
  2. stranger1101

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    You could be pan-romantic and homosexual, if you feel like that fits? Figuring this stuff out can be quite a process though, so don't let the labels define you :slight_smile:
     
  3. loveislove01

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    You mean panromantic?
    Yeah, that's what I think I am, a pan or demiromantic lesbian.
    So from what you said, you see girls sexually, and can be attracted to any gender in a romantic sense, correct me if I'm wrong.

    Here are a few labels
    Biromantic - Romantic attraction to both sexes
    Panromantic - Romantic attraction to all genders
    Polyromantic- Romantic attraction to many, but not all genders
    Demiromantic - Romantic attraction that develops after forming a strong emotional bond.
    And then you're sexually attracted to women, so it'd add on "homosexual" or "lesbian" to the end of it.
    For example, panromantic lesbian.

    Or, if you're a mix, you could identify as
    pansexual, polysexual...(whatever your label is) etc. With a preference for other women.

    I word things rather confusingly sometimes, so tell me if you have questions. Hope I could help :slight_smile:
     
  4. The Purple One3

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    Yeah I know, thanks for responding! I'll just keep thinking about it!(*hug*) sorry, this message was being typed BEFORE yours love

    ---------- Post added 25th Jun 2015 at 12:27 AM ----------

    You know, I think panromantic sounds closest in terms of one single word, so I think I may be a ponromantic lesbian. Thanks everyone! (*hug*)
     
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