Hi! I am very confused about where I belong in the sexuality spectrum. I've been mainly with guys, it's so easy, I share similar interests with many of them and I know how it works. I don,t find many guys hot though, I don't really look at their bodies, just the face. I found girls super pretty and hot since I was little and my dad always joked I was into girls. I draw pretty girls, I look at pictures of pretty girl, I like to look pretty. I had a few experiences with girls but nothing that made me sure. 2-3 treesome but the girls were putting on a show so it wasn't really real. I had sex with a girl I met online but I wasn't that attracted to her and the second girl I had sex with I was too drunk to fully enjoy. I kissed girls on many occasions and it was nice. I feel like I need to be with a girl I really find attractive to be sure. There is a girl at my work that is so beautiful, I always look at her but she's 100% straight so I just look. I also remember having a crush on a girl I used to be bestfriend with but I never told her because she was straight. I'm a 25 years old girl and still confused and it,s not because I'm affraid. I'm super open. I'm affraid of flirting women, I'm very very bad and shy at it, the complete opposite than with men. Any opinions ? =s ---------- Post added 28th Jun 2015 at 12:50 AM ---------- Oh also I don't know if it helps but when I watch porn I only look at the girl. the guy is just there for the dick, he doesn,t matter. But for the lesbian porn I'm very picky because it looks like it's made for men, I prefer to look at the sensual ones. Also I'm not very turned on by the idea of eating out a girl but I also never liked sucking a guy.
What do you mean you had a threesome, but it was a show? anyways, uhm, so maybe you are shy because you haven't came out yet? Maybe because this whole experience is so new? also, being shy to someone you are interested in, is somewhat typical. It can go both ways Also, im not sure if you are asking how to be more open to women, or if you aren't sure if you do indeed like both man and woman. I would say that not liking most men, and only a few just means you are picky. It could also mean you lean heavily on the lesbian spectrum. women and men look/think differently, and I would say women look a hell alot more beautiful than men on average and I am bisexual with a lean towards gay, being there are some woman I really want taste. But, regarding just liking the face comment about men you mentioned, I would assume you mean it is the only attractive part, and you aren't sexually attracted to cock. But you are for vagina. So to get that out of the way, if that is how you feel, congratulations, you are in short, more lesbian than straight. p.s. I think you will be better off goingto meet some lesbians somewhere, maybe go with a friend to a gay/lesbian bar, don't get hammered, but feel the vibes and how things are. Just use it as practice, and go up to woman you find attractive. You're young, get on it. I'm in similar shoes, and I personally think I need to go to more gay bars, and meet gay people to get a sense of what it's like to be gay. I'm 22 and have spent most my life with women, like 2 3-year relationships lol.
Yeah I can related with needed to get the 'sens'. I feel weird because I'm used to guys but I feel like I should try to overcome it. I get along good with guys because a lot of them are geeks and we share a lot in common but I been on many dates for the past year and I'm bored of them all.. I just wanna talk about games with them, maybe I'll have sex twice and move on. except for the boyfriends I had but most were short lived except the one year one. What I meant was that I'm attracted to some guys faces but its really the personality that works for me. for girls I'm attracted to the face and the body but I'm a bit scared to touch her vagina. I have no idea what I'm doing. I need to find a cute geek girl and see !
So it seems you have answered your own question right? Maybe watch some Point of view (POV) porn, or just porn in general, and get used to the vibe if you are still a little scared to touch the vagina. Honestly, I didn't know what to think when thinking about touching dick for the first time, but when the time arrived, it brought me from 0 to 100 real quick lol
