When I was like 13 I was reeeally obsessed with Taylor Swift, like unnaturally much, my entire room was covered with pictures of her and she was basically the only thing I thought/talked about. I didn't want to date her or kiss her though, I just really wanted to be like her and also to be her friend. So basically, I only wanted to do non romantic and non sexual things with her. It was just such an intense obsession that I'm wondering if it could mean I like girls? Would this obsession have been as intense if I was totally straight? I'd be interested if any of you have had 'girl crush' experiences
Haha I can totally relate. It's happened to me a few times with female celebrities. Looking back, a few times I definitely had actual crushes on them, though I didn't know what to call it at the time. As to whether your obsession means you like girls, I think it totally depends. The first time I started questioning my sexuality based on a "girl crush" on a celebrity, it scared me because I'd only ever thought of myself as straight. It took me several years to come to terms with the fact that I do kind of like girls. So basically, I think it means whatever you're comfortable with it meaning.
Personally I think that if you have never had romantic or sexual thoughts for a girl then you probably aren't attracted to them. But if you have had either of those feelings, then yes, welcome to the "I Like Girls Club" Btw, I love that you love Taylor!
i totally relate lol i have been obsessed with so many female celebrities (taylor swift, rhianna etc) and never really any male celebs... does this say something about me? XD
