I'm turning 18, so I will be of legal age for sexual intercourse. As a curious, but cautious gay man, what is a good way to get sexual experiences? There are so many things that I'm willing to try, but how do I get them safely and casually? I live near San Francisco, so that is where I would look for partners. I'm excited to explore my body, but unsure of how to do it in a safe setting. I'm versatile, I think, and am willing to experiment. I want experiences. Where should I look and what do I expect? I'm sorry if this sounds awkward. I've only recently accepted that I love and enjoy men, but I'm anticipating this very much.