Hey, My name is... James. (Not my real name). I am quite confused, when i am horny and when i am masturbating, i will happily watch gay porn and will be up for gay sex. But after i orgasm, i become straight, not wanting to look at men in public and thinking about them sexually. Any advice? Thanks x
Hi, James. This is pretty common, actually. The hormones released during sexual experiences provide a strong drive to continue the sexual activity, but after orgasm, they abruptly drop off, which is why you feel the way you do. As you become more comfortable and confident in yourself, you'll find that you aren't as affected after masturbation. The best thing you can do in the meantime is simply recognize that what's happening is influenced by hormones, and isn't actually changing your attractions.
Hey james I would agree with the admin, me and my friend between the ages of 13-15 experienced the same thing and we both went on to 'test' the feeling at 17/18 (not with each other) and now he knows they were just hormones and I know they were something more. Just wait and see because things change a lot with hormones in, they cause a very confusing and possibly upsetting time but I think the admin summed it up well Hoped that helped :icon_bigg
