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Questioning Sexuality - Bisexual or Lesbian?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by ScaryClosets, Jul 9, 2015.

  1. ScaryClosets

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    Hey, I'm ScaryClosets.

    I've had this question for many years now, and I really want an answer. People think I'm Lesbian, and I have been called a Dyke before. I've always liked guys, and I've seen lately about girls too. Though, there's a balance between the two likings. One day I like girls more and the other guys more. I'm very confused, please help.
     
  2. XenaxGabby

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    It sounds like you're bisexual if you like both, and with that comes fluidity. Your attractions can fluctuate on a day-to-day basis. It's completely normal.
     
  3. Hachi

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    Ditto what XenasGabby said. If it is not helpful to you to put a label on yourself (lesbian, bisexual) than simply accept your fluctuating attractions as they are. It's completely, 100% okay to like different genders at different times! You are still figuring yourself out and that takes time. Try not to get too stressed out about it (I know it's hard!).

    If you are finding yourself still struggling or have specific concerns still unanswered, the EC community is here for you!