I've unfortunately never been in a real, steady relationship before and one thing that im nervous about when getting into one is the whole top/bottom thing. Im technically versatile but I almost always prefer to be on bottom. Im scared that I'll get into a relationship with someone I really like and when we get to it my partner will prefer to be on bottom. I dunno, I guess it's not a big deal but im a bit nervous :icon_redf is this ever an issue?
I prefer being bottom too. But I know how real love feels, and how important sex is, so if I have to - I'll bang his brains out. I don't find it hard to switch sides =) For most guys I know - it's not a big issue.
It can be an issue, but don't be afraid to ask in advance if you think things are progressing well. Most guys will be happy to tell you if they have a strong preference or if they are versatile. Asking the question isn't wrong.