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Is the whole top/bottom thing ever an issue?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by CraikNakes, Jul 11, 2015.

  1. CraikNakes

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    I've unfortunately never been in a real, steady relationship before and one thing that im nervous about when getting into one is the whole top/bottom thing. Im technically versatile but I almost always prefer to be on bottom. Im scared that I'll get into a relationship with someone I really like and when we get to it my partner will prefer to be on bottom. I dunno, I guess it's not a big deal but im a bit nervous :icon_redf is this ever an issue?
     
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    I prefer being bottom too. But I know how real love feels, and how important sex is, so if I have to - I'll bang his brains out. I don't find it hard to switch sides =)

    For most guys I know - it's not a big issue.
     
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    It can be an issue, but don't be afraid to ask in advance if you think things are progressing well. Most guys will be happy to tell you if they have a strong preference or if they are versatile. Asking the question isn't wrong.