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Confused again

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by MrSkittles, Jul 11, 2015.

  1. MrSkittles

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    For the past year or so I was confident I was gay, but these past few weeks I have been questioning. I know I like guys, I don't know how to explain this but when I see a good looking female I get aroused and I feel like I am Sexually attracted to her. Could I be Bisexual but with a strong preference for guys or something else? I have never been this confused before. I have been having these fantasies with me and a female. I don't see myself in a relationship with her but I do have fantasies with females and see myself actually being sexual with them. If anyone could help that would be great
     
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    Anyone? I really need help. I am trying to find a label because I feel like labels are important. I always liked guys but a small part of me likes girls but I only get aroused by them every once and awhile. Sometimes I see myself in a relationship with one but sometimes I don't. I know you don't need a label but I want one because I feel they are important to me and who I am.
     
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    its very possible that you are bisexual but just with a very strong preference for males. so like for every 10-20 guys you find attractive and can imagine being sexual with, there's 1 female. if you haven't already heard of the kinsey scale you should check it out - there's some free tests online even to get a sense of where you might stand on it. but it sounds like maybe you're a 5 or so...
     
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    Yeah I heard of it. I took it and got a 6, I think your right and I might me bisexual with a strong reference for men.