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Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Guest17, Jul 14, 2015.

  1. Guest17

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    So hey im a 16 year old boy from Belgium. I have never really thought about my sexuality before i always watched straight porn i and have always felt attracted to girls and never to boys. But a couple of days ago i watched some gay porn just because i was curious. Now i kinda felt attracted and since that moment im just constantly doubting myself and its driving me crazy. Sorry if my english was bad and is love some response thanks.
     
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    Hey. I'm 23, and I realized I was attracted to guys when I was 14. It was hard to deal with. I knew I had certain feelings, but I tried to rationalize them. Finally I just admitted to myself that I liked guys. Not that you like guys, I'm just saying that your feelings are your own, and it's okay to explore them. You may end up wanting to identify as straight but also like gay porn. Or you may choose to identify as gay, bisexual, queer, whatever you want. And that's okay. You are you. And you have you feelings. And there is nothing wrong or strange or abnormal about the way you feel.
     
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    ^ this! :slight_smile: And also, porn is a very bad indicator of sexual orientation.
     
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    Thanks i guess im overthinking everyhting a little bit atm. I also think i am just aroused when i open the porn site itself it his become a sort of reflex.