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Just came out as trans female... now questioning sexuality?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by MagentaGould, Jul 20, 2015.

  1. MagentaGould

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    Heyyyyy,

    So I am still into guys and I always have been, I am a trans female and have just came out but recently I have been having sexual thoughts about women, is this common or whats happening, im really confused...

    I wanna be with a guy but this is there and I don't know what it means... anyone understand?

    Thank you
     
  2. Fallingdown7

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    Do you think you may be bisexual?
     
  3. KJA

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    ^ I agree with Fallingdown. If you feel comfortable enough, try it out. Maybe it just your libedo being contrary. :dry:
     
  4. bookandquill

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    You might be bi/pan.
     
  5. Daydream94

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    Bisexuality comes to mind.

    As does being genderblind in your romantic/emotional interests.
     
  6. CommasGalore

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    Really, you're the only one who knows exactly what you're feeling. Although we can offer advice, but we don't know your emotions.

    That aside, it's certainly possible that you could be bisexual, pansexual, etc. it might be worth exploring those feelings and dating a woman, depending on your comfort zone.

    It's also possible (although, if these are fairly constant feelings, not incredibly likely) that you are, in fact, attracted to men, and these feelings are just a fluke.

    No matter who you end up being attracted to, remember that whatever label you want to give yourself is your choice as well, and it doesn't have to be defined by others.