so what have been your experiences with the opposite sex crushes? have any of you who identify as gay had legitimate opposite crushes and if yes, how many did you have growing up in comparison to how many same sex crushes you have had or currently have.
(Im a guy) A big fat zero. I'm just not into women. Period. I have had zero opposite sex crushes. Conversely I've had a massive amount, I've actually made a list, of crushes for guys. Reading between the lines, are you trying to figure out if you are gay? If so, ask yourself the questions, what do you think about? What gender do you hunger to be with? Oh heres a good one. What do you look at? Good luck
Well, in our heteronormative society, women are raised to imagine a life with a man. So, me not knowing that gay was a thing until 6th grade, I thought I liked boys. I had a lot of male friends, and I tended to mistake a close friendship with them to be a "crush". Basically, I forced myself to crush on boys. I never once looked at a celebrity or a boy I didn't know well and thought, "hey, he's cute. we should date." It was always someone close to me.
I've had one or two straight crushes. Well, I don't know if those were real, because they were at a time when I was still pretending that I was not gay.
I don't know if this counts or not. Before I figured what transgender was(I didn't know until I was 19), I had crushes on guys. Does that count as a "straight" crush?:icon_wink I had a couple when I was a kid but that sort of receded over the years, I don't have as many crushes as I used to. Infatuations maybe, but rarely crushes.
im confused and trying to figure out what i am because i have only ever had crushes on girls growing up maybe 10 girls and my eyes are always fixated on the girls when i am out and about but i can get off to gay porn easier than straight porn and i can get off to fantasies about fucking my gay femboy friend but i can also get off to fantasizeing about straight sex it just takes a bit longer this could be due to having multiple sexual experiences as a child making me more comfortable sexually with twinkish and submissive boys. either way i am constantly confused and questioning what i am 24/7 it's on my mid
Just like that, when I was like 8-12 I had a few crushes on girls. I really thought I wanted to be with them. Then I turned 13 and realized I was totally gay and those girls were kinda manly too (and I thought they were really cool and wanted to be close to them). Then after I turned 13 I had like a million guy crushes. Now, I don't really have any crushes, but I look at guys a lot and there's only one girl who I even think is cute, but in the way that she's adorable. I'm sure everyone knows someone like that. As for guys, the ones I really like give me radioactive mutant butterflies.
No. If celebrity girl crushes don't count I've had girls hit on me though. And when during those times you're just pondering things. I'd recall and tell myself I'd totally date some of them if I were straight. But then again never gonna happen. :lol:
