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Questioning Sexuality?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by transkenma, Jul 23, 2015.

  1. transkenma

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    Alright, this is my first post so I hope I'm doing it right...

    Lately, I've been questioning my gender and I've just been so confused, and I thought my sexuality was the one thing I was 100% sure about, but apparently not. I currently identify as pansexual, but I've been thinking a lot and I've come to realize that I might be a panromantic asexual. I know that's not such a big jump, but it still makes me anxious because I hate not knowing something about myself. I'm not old enough to have sex, so I don't know? But in general, I just don't find having sex appealing and I can't imagine myself in a situation like that without feeling uncomfortable.

    I don't know. I just needed to get this off my chest.
     
  2. YinYang

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    I am pretty much in the same situation as you. I'm 14, so I pretty young. After a while of thinking and changing my mind and obsessing, I decided, since I'm not into sex now, I'm panromantic asexual. Later in life, if I 'grow into it', I'll say I'm pansexual. But I'm not worrying about it right now. It's just, who I am RIGHT NOW is panromantic asexual. I might become something else, but for now, I'm good being who I am.
     
  3. Overcomplicated

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    Oh hey, there's other asexual teens out there, lol.
    I would recommend looking into the official Asexuality website because it has a lot of good information on there that helped me separate my sexual and romantic attractions.

    Hope you can figure things out! (*hug*)