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need advice from someone who gets it

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by R999, Jul 27, 2015.

  1. R999

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    Location:
    Boston, MA
    Gender:
    Female
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
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    Out to everyone
    I'm a 24 y/o Bi woman with a boyfriend whom I love. I know I'm bi but feel like a fake because I've never had sex with a woman. I'm having trouble being 100% confident in my relationship because I'm afraid I'll always wonder what could've been or regret never experimenting equally with both genders.
    Anyone else feel this way? HELP
     
  2. bi2me

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    If you think you will regret it now, imagine how you will feel after 10 more years of monogamy. I wish I had explored my bisexuality more. I don't regret being with/staying with my boyfriend/husband, but if I had a do over, I don't think I would have so readily agreed to monogamy. I choose to stay, but I do wish I had been braver in my 20s.