So I'm unsure if I'm gay or straight. I can tell when a girl is pretty and when a man is hot. I have had previous girlfriends in the past and enjoyed being with them. I have never sexuality interacted with someone of the same sex and never wish to. I sometimes get roused by women and men but didn't use to. I'm going through puberty with is definitely confusing. I have watched straight porn and the girl got me roused but then I got bored. I started watching gay porn and after a year began to stop. The male sounds got me roused and the male genatalie but I don't find men hot themselves. I watched again today because I wanted to know if I was gay and if they got me roused. So yeah I am gay or not...
Hello there, welcome to the forum! I'm going to move your post over to the "Sexual and Romantic Orientation" sub-forum, where I think you'll get more views and helpful advice. My personal take is that it's very hard for us to tell you exactly what sexuality you are or what 'label' might suit you. It sounds like you're still quite young, and everything is more confusing when you're young! In addition to this, a lot of people say that porn isn't a good indicator of your sexuality - many people can be aroused by different types of porn. Remember, if you find yourself sexually attracted to men and women - you don't have to be "gay" or "straight". For example, Bisexual people are sexually attracted to men and women. Bisexual people don't have to be attracted to men and women equally - sometimes they feel a much stronger attraction to one particular gender. Or perhaps they're only attracted to certain men or women. Sexuality is a funny thing, it's not always 'black and white' or in your case 'gay or straight'. It's a broad spectrum, and you could be anywhere on that spectrum. The most important thing is not to panic - there are plenty of people in your position, you are not alone. Don't worry too much about putting a label on your sexuality, especially when you're still so young. I believe in following your heart towards whatever -and whoever - makes you happy.
