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Attraction and disgust at the same time

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by sporn, Jul 30, 2015.

  1. sporn

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    I sometimes feel like I might be attracted to men, but I always get disgusted when I actually do stuff or have a chance to do stuff. Anyone else like this?
     
  2. Hobbes

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    Yes. I think I might be attracted to women, but when I think about doing anything with them, I get turned off.
     
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    That's been my problem for years. I find some men attractive, but I get disgusted whenever I act on it, and that's a problem for me because I want to be able to accept all of myself as I am.
     
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    i feel this way too. i'm attracted to men slightly more than just noticing that they're hot, yet if i really imagine myself in an actual serious situation with a guy it's not appealing to me.
     
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    I find men attractive, but sexually revolting and I just can't be in a relationship with a man.
     
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    my old co-worker, she was a self-righteous prick and i couldn't stand being near her, but also one of the most attractive ppl I've come across
     
  7. fxngirl

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    ^^ I kinda feel the same way, but I generally don't find men as attractive as women.
     
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    just i feel the same way too! That's why it's started to make me wonder if I could possibly be into women... NOT SURE! :/
     
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    I feel that way too.
    I can have crushes on guys and kiss them and stuff, but once it comes to sex, I'm like "NOPE NOPE NOPE" and I can even gag at it sometimes.

    It gets really annoying, and it has ruined some relationships for me. Sometimes I wonder if I'm just a lesbian-in-denial, idk.
     
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    I can imagine good sex with men but it's never as enjoyable in real life :frowning2: