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Scared

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Newbie123, Jul 30, 2015.

  1. Newbie123

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    Sexual Orientation:
    Questioning
    Hey guys, honestly I'm really scared! But back story, I'm 16 and I've had of couple of girlfriends got the 3rd base but never all the way. I've never done anything with a guy except kissed one which I didn't like because it was in a dare game and he was not good looking at all. I masturbate regularly, it starts off with female/anal porn (I have an anal fetish) but i usually end up finishing over gay porn. I do like watching it and I've talked to gay people before, I've also sent nudes to gay people and done that kind of stuff. It seems like whenever I get horny or aroused I go gay? I'm so confused what to do? I don't know what I am? When I'm not aroused I find girls hot but I'll see like male models and think there hot aswell? I would like proper advice from people please. Thank you
     
  2. bi2me

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    Try not to worry too much about the label. Since you've said that you are attracted to men and women, it sounds like you could be bisexual. There can be equal or unequal attraction, and you can still be bisexual. Sexuality is also fluid, and it can change over time. You will figure out what you like more as you are with more partners or explore what you are into. Porn is generally not a great indicator of what you actually like in real life. People like all kinds of things in porn that they would never really like.

    Hope that helps!
    Welcome! :slight_smile: