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Dating a girl

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Monak, Jul 31, 2015.

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  1. Monak

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    Hi i start dating a girl and i teally like her my ex - guy he booked a hotel for this weekend he looks so desperate and i feel so sorry for him idk how to say no, but i am dating that girl i dont want to lie her i will feel stupid what do i do
     
    #1 Monak, Jul 31, 2015
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    If you care about her at all, just say no to him. You are with her now, not him. It doesn't matter how bad you feel for him, going with him would be cheating on her, and coersion on his part. Don't let him pressure you.
     
    #2 Ophelia, Jul 31, 2015
  3. blossoms

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    You should explain to your ex that you're dating somebody new now, so you won't be meeting up with him. It wouldn't be fair at all on the girl you're dating to be hooking up with your ex, especially if he's trying to pressure you into seeing him.
     
    #3 blossoms, Jul 31, 2015
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    I know but i would act like his friend but its still awkard

    ---------- Post added 31st Jul 2015 at 08:59 AM ----------

    He looked so deaperate and buging me to go so in order to get rid of him last night i told him i will go omg !
     
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    Be strong(*hug*)
    You can do this! Maybe you should tell your girlfriend what happened and about how you felt pressured into this and ask her for help in telling him to back off. Make sure you tell her you don't want to be with him at all though and that you just panicked and answered to get out of the conversation. Tell her you only want her, but you need help being assertive?
     
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    Another option is to date both of them openly.
     
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    Whenever she hear something about him she snaps she doesnt want to hear for him not to tell her that i will see him. Hehe and we are just dating with her but she is trying to be in control all the time
     
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    That's not good, either.

    I suggest you say no to your ex, as you are dating someone else. You can tell your girlfriend about him, and if she is unreasonable, that's a problem you need to solve. Maybe she's not the one for you; maybe you should give her a chance to change.

    However, it is never good to plan on cheating on someone. You shouldn't do it again.
     
    #8 thewolf, Jul 31, 2015
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    I agree with TheWolf. Unless you guys have an open relationship, it's not a good idea to go. Whether or not you feel bad. With regards to the control thing, you should probably nip that in the bud sooner rather than later.
     
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    Yeah, you need to tell him, Monak. Tell him no, you don't want to be with him, you're dating someone else. That's fairest on all three of you.
     
    #10 Invidia, Jul 31, 2015
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