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Finally Realized!

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by BookWriter1994, Aug 2, 2015.

  1. BookWriter1994

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    Okay, after months and months of questioning and sorting out my feelings. I have finally realized that I am indeed a Bisexual! I thought about this before when I first came here but back then I was still stuck that I should be either a lesbian or straight I didn't really realize that I could actually date both genders.

    I truly do not mind dating both genders. The feelings for girls that I have is still new to me but I know that if I find a right girl and we get along I would date her. It just depends on how much I really like her and everything like that and her personality as well.

    With guys, I know that I still like guys I mean, I have liked guys all my life and I do not think that will ever change and I can still see myself marrying a guy as well as a girl too it just depends if he or she is the one.

    For now, however, I would like to keep this to myself from my family. It's not because they wouldn't like it because I know that they will love me no matter what it's just because this is still new to me and everything and I would like to explore it a bit more you know?

    SO happy that I finally figured it out! My mind feels so much calmer now! (!):icon_bigg:grin::slight_smile:
     
  2. BrokenRecord

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    Congrats! It's always great to witness someone coming to the realization of who they really are! I wish you good tidings in your exploration of your new sexual identity! :thumbsup:
     
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    Congratulations!! :slight_smile:
     
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    So happy for you! Yes, you can certainly move at your own pace at telling who you want to, when you want to.
     
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    Hey QuietStarlight! Yay!

    I'm pleased for you. I can remember the quiet euphoria I experienced when everything just finally clicked and I accepted that I was fully capable of falling in love with a girl. I word it like that, because that's how it was in my head at that moment! Self-acceptance of that fact was the big hurdle for me.

    I wish you all the best!(*hug*)
     
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    Welcome to the club! We really do have the best cookies.
     
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    Congratulations! Really happy for you my friend (*hug*)
     
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    Thank you everyone for your replies!:grin: