So I have identified as pansexual for a while, but have a preference for females. I can be attracted to anyone regardless of gender identity, but am more attracted to females. Do you think pansexual lesbian would be a good label. I don't want to offend anyone though... If it wasn't obvious, I have horrible self esteem and yea.....
You can call yourself whatever you want - pansexual with a female preference, pansexual lesbian, etc. Just because a lot of people say pansexuals don't care about gender and don't notice gender, I think that's far too much of a blanket statement. It's perfectly fine for a pansexual to notice gender and have a preference over gender.