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Not sure if Bisexual or straight?????

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Arbiter, Aug 6, 2015.

  1. Arbiter

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    So im 14 and I don't know what I am. I have never questioned my sexuality until now, I know I am not gay because I get aroused my women but ive noticed I get aroused by sexual stories about two gay guys. And the idea of kissing a guy is very appealing however I don't always feel attracted to guys. I have never had a crush before so that makes things trickier. Also on occasion if I see a good looking guy I think to myself that he is cute.

    But also I get aroused by women like I said.

    Its strange though because sometimes I feel like im bisexual but other times I don't. I think I might just be Bi-curious but I don't know.

    I want to tell my friends but I don't want to come out as anything if im not sure about it.

    BTW I can't experiment or anything because that will complicate my life.

    Am I straight, Bi or Bi-curious? :help::help::help:
     
  2. Emerson96

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    Not necessarily bisexual just because you're aroused to stories involving two guys, a lot of straight guys jack off to gay sex if you didn't know? (google search it), that could be you. I guess the difference here is whether or not you still feel attracted to guys when you're not horny and not staring at porn or reading erotic stories involving two men?
     
  3. troubleshooter

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    I think it's a bit early to definitively say what your orientation is. You admit you're attracted to women, but now you're feeling some inclinations towards men too. You sound bicurious but as you get older your feelings might change this way or that. I wouldn't come out to anyone just yet, especially at your age with how people can react, and you're not even sure. Just be patient with yourself and see how you feel in your day to day life. It's fine to be straight or bisexual or anything.
     
  4. A7n5n0a7b1e3l

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    I think that there is a good chance that you are bisexual. I know that you don't have a crush on every girl you've met so maybe you just haven't met the right guy yet. If you are aroused by both genders then you are probably bisexual. It will just take time for you to figure out who you are because you are really the only person that can know for sure. I know that that isn't very helpful but it's the truth