Hi guys, so I've been questioning my orientation for quite some time and I hope that you could probably help me with finding out 'what' I actually am? So, I never had a special interest in boys, part of the reason for this might be that I went to an only girls school from age 10 to 17 and hardly ever had contact with them. Then I started feeling more towards a girl who I used to be close friends with at this time, I got jealous when she gave another friend a kiss on the cheek to say goodbye and stuff and that really confused me at first. I thought I was a lesbian for some time, before realizing that bi seemed more right because I still felt attracted to boys as well. I was really okay with this, especially cause my parents are cool with lgbt people. But then recently I noticed that there were times when I couldn't imagine being in a relationship with a girl or a boy and sometimes with none of them, I felt no attraction at all to any gender. Next day there is a super cute girl and I think I'd love to get to know her and stuff. I really don't know how to interpret that, and if anyone has experienced this as well I would be grateful for some advice... Thanks, Marie
I think you could be bi even though label don't really matter. Personally, I am bi and there is days were I am mostly into girls others where I feel more into guys and some where I almost feel asexual as I don't crave for any of them. Not sure if that helps or not, maybe straight people or lesbians/gay experience the same thing, but yeah, know that you are not alone.