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Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by liavfaer, Aug 9, 2015.

  1. liavfaer

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    ... to be physically and mentally attracted to women, but also be attracted to men via personalities? I mean, I'm not sexually attracted to men, but I'll really like someone's personality to the point where I might actually like them, simply not in a sexual/physical way.

    For example, I was in a relationship with this guy I genuinely cared for and loved, but I wasn't sexually attracted to him. I didn't want to do anything sexual aside from kissing and cuddling. On the other hand, when I'm attracted to a woman it's usually personality and a physical/sexual attraction.
     
  2. RainOnVII

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    It's perfectly okay to feel the love for men and women, and being sexually attracted to only women--love is love, body or heart. If you're a fan of labels, I'm guessing that you're either biromantic (feels romantic attraction to men and women) or demiromantic (feels romantic attraction after a "strong bond", or feelings is formed). I hope your relationships go well!
     
  3. liavfaer

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    Thanks! I really appreciate the input. I guess I tend to get too caught up in labels at times. If I don't seem to fit something I assume there's something wrong with me, but I guess it's more there aren't enough labels in the world to cover all the different forms of love. Again, thanks for the advice!