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Don't really care about my sexuality

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by sekliniak, Aug 10, 2015.

  1. sekliniak

    sekliniak Guest

    Hey. I'm 17 years old and since last year I label myself as queer.
    It was really hard to figure out my sexual orientation. Especially because it does not feel comfortable to label myself. It seems that I just don't fit into a specific 'box'.
    I know that queer is a label itself but ikd, it's different.. it has a sence of freedom. I love to be queer because I can be anything I want to be.. I can define it for myself as often as I want to. I can love whoever I want to regardless of their gender and sexual orientation..
    But sometimes I feel a bit strange. I'm scared about coming out because I don't know how I should explain my family and friends who I am and what I feel. I'm scared that nobody will ever understand me.
    Does anyone feel the same way?
     
  2. baconpox

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    I feel the same way but go w bi because of personal reasons. Totally normal.
     
  3. sekliniak

    sekliniak Guest

    Thank you! :slight_smile:
     
  4. Schloss

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    Hey there and welcome, you're from Germany - can I ask which part of the country? If you're from Baden-Württemberg I guess it would be a bit more difficult... how does your environment react towards non-heterosexual relationships, based on your experience? Many people will not understand it, sure, but a lot of people will accept it - and that's what's important to start off with.