in my mind I've got the idea of a guy and a girl that i would like. the problem is that when I am out and about I don't really see anyone that I might want to hook up with. is this normal or? :icon_sad:
I've got the same thing but just with guys, I've never seen anyone in real life really that I'd like, except maybe an old English teacher of mine, but you probably just haven't seen anyone who tickles your fancy. Or maybe you have and just haven't realised it at the time. I went from unhealthily fancying Zayn from One Direction, to Chris Evans (Capt. America) and Mark Ruffalo. I think that our taste in people will change over time and it probably always will until you're with someone you're happy with. Give it some time.
It's normal. It's fine to have standards, and it's okay to set them high. But if you keep expecting to find somebody perfect, you're going to have to search for a long time. So keep your options open. Don't pass somebody off just because you think you won't like them, because sometimes, it comes as a surprise.
Same here. I have MANY celebrity crushes but I've only ever been attracted to five people in real life. Like others have said, you probably just haven't met anyone that makes you take a double look. Sometimes I think we as a society are so hung up on "the pretty people of stardom" that we look right past the regular people.
the other thing i really want to find someone. since ive accepted i like guys ive really just wanted to be with one. im submissive so yurn for someone to hold me :icon_redf
I feel this so much right now, especially ever since accepting my sexuality and thinking I would immediately start liking other girls. And I totally agree with XenaxGabby's post.
