Does Listening to queen make me gay?

It seems to me that there is a great deal of insecurity you have in regards to your sexual orientation. You label yourself as bisexual yet you seem to have a fear of being perceived to be gay. The type of music you listen to cannot tell whether you are gay or not.

From what you have written it appears as if your body is trying to tell you something. That uneasiness that you feel in your gut should not be ignored but you need to get to the bottom of this. Why are you feeling the way you are feeling? This is something you have to figure out and only you can do that.

 

If listening to Queen makes you gay, the majority of people on earth would be gay.

 

It's just a stupid stereotype. Like whatever type of music you like, and embrace it

I guess if stereotypes were true than I'd be a straight 14 year old girl because I love Taylor Swift.

Me? Straight? :lol:

 

The majority of the world is not aware of the existence of a band called Queen, let alone enjoys listening to them

But no, how much you like Queen is not a very good indication of how gay you are..

 

BREAKING NEWS: Humanity on the very of extinction as 90% of humans are now gay due to a change in the definition of homosexuality.

 

If listening to queen makes me gay, then that would mean I'm not gay because I don't listen to queen (never even heard of it).

So no. Gay just means you want a relationship with the same sex which would encompass sexual and romantic attractions (basically the full package). Bisexual would mean you like men and women and not necessarily in the same ways.

A rather accurate indication of your orientation is your attraction to the same sex. Everything after that is irrelevant to your orientation, also known as individuality.

 

I heard somebody passing by at school saying sonething like 'he listens to metal so he's gotta be a queer'
I am just as confused as I am now as I was then why your music taste decides your orientation... It just doesn't make sense! I listen to all sort of weird stuff (including some queen) and that wasn't my first indicator of my orientation. My first indicator of my orientation was that I am attracted to guys, as well as girls!
So in my opinion, listen to whatever you want, they'll eventually be a person you pass by, guy, girl, whatever, and if your attracted to them, go with that.

 

Are any of you actually listening to him or are you just reading the fucking title?!

 

The only thing it means is you have good taste in music.

 

I don't know if this is what you're going through or not but something to think about is if you like the attention you get from this girl more than you actually like her for her. Do you feel you want to make her happy because you love her or to impress her/make her love you more?
I know it's kind of heavy stuff to think about and only you can tell if this is what you're feeling. If it is, that's okay and don't beat yourself up for it because a lot of people feel like this. I've felt like that about others before: always wanting their attention and feeling needy. Anyway, just something to think about. Maybe you need to work on being more secure in your sexuality and with yourself first.
Best of luck to you and I'm sure you'll figure it out in time so don't get too stressed(*hug*)(*hug*)(*hug*)

---------- Post added 12th Aug 2015 at 07:09 PM ----------

By the way, the music you like really has no bearing on sexuality.

A "stereotypical lesbian" for example may listen to a lot of Tegan and Sara and stuff but then there are some lesbians who really like music by guys (singing about girls) in general more because they can identify with it. It really doesn't matter and anyone can listen to any type of music.

 

I ALWAYS listened to queen. I thought it didn't make me anything, but it turns out I'm much gayer than I thought.

 

This actually made me laugh.

No, it doesn't. Music is a matter of personal tastes, which vary from individual to individual.
I used to know a bisexual who liked black metal. And a straight guy who liked bubblegum pop.

 

No listening to queen does not brainwash you into getting boners over other men

---------- Post added 14th Aug 2015 at 01:05 AM ----------

All jokes aside maybe it is just old Fred making you horny

 

Listening to Queen does not make you gay one bit. However, looking at Queen and getting a semi might give you an indication of whether you are or not. :lol:

 

I'm not sure about that though. No one can resist the allure of Freddie Mercury, regardless of who they're attracted to. :icon_wink

 

Yes, Queen, Rainbows, Unicorns, all can change you into a homosexual.

 

LOL dating yourself there, young one. The majority of the world over thirty-five is fully aware of Queen. "We are the Champions" and "We Will Rock You" are long time jock anthems. And let us not forget the very classic Bohemian Rhapsody scene in Wayne's World where a very straight Wayne and Garth were headbanging.
And hell no, listening to Queen does NOT make you gay anymore than hating musicals makes you straight.

 

If Queen made someone gay, I can't help but wonder what I'd be. In 20 minutes I can listen to anything from Metallica to Patsy Cline to DMX

---------- Post added 14th Aug 2015 at 08:23 PM ----------

Incidently, listening to Florence + The Machine now.:icon_bigg