I used to have a horrible obsession with my sexual orientation. I used to obsess over whether I was going though a phase, whether I liked boys or not, whether I liked anyone and labels in general. Now I just stopped those thoughts by calling myself queer. I'm still annoyed that I can't define sexual attraction. I also get extremely pissed off when people ask me what genders I like. I don't think that's normal.
If you used to have a horrible obsession, and what you're doing now has made that more comfortable...then why knock it?
If anyone does ask, just tell them that you're not quite sure and that you don't like being labeled. It's completely okay c:
