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Bi but don't find men attractive?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Walkerz19902015, Aug 16, 2015.

  1. Walkerz19902015

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    Okay, I know the title seems like a contradiction but stay with me.

    I almost ONLY like females. Find them attractive/sexy etc and have had sexual/romantic relationships with them easily and loved it, but gay porn arouses me, despite never having felt any types of sexual or romantic attraction to men in real life. I don't notice men in real life like I do women. I've never seen a guy in real life and been attracted to him or wanted to have sex or kiss him but it happens a lot when I see girls. I try and "test" myself when I'm out and about to see if I would do anything with males in real life and it's just a huge turn off.

    I've never wanted to be more than friends with men I meet, whereas I would really want to be more than just friends with some females.

    Also, if can tell if a man is good looking while still having no attraction to them, am I bi or gay?.

    Am I bi? confused? or just have a weird fetish? Could it be that it's seen as "taboo" or seen as wrong by many people which makes me like it more?

    Thanks for any of your replies. This has been on my mind for a long time now and .
     
  2. Monak

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    ok so have u tried with a girl? and what abt with a guy ?

    i feel the same way and i think that you are bi with more preference for women. There is nothing wrong with that, you have to explore and see how do u feel about both sex's. There is not rush to do so take ur time .
     
  3. Lin1

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    I think you are straight.

    To be bi you would have to either have a romantic attraction to men (as in you could be in a relationship with them but no sex) or a sexual attraction to them or both (and by men I mean men in general NOT porn actors), and you don't seem to check any of this cases, you just appreciate gay porn which is normal.

    Porn is made to arouse you, in fact gay porn arouse all type of people even lesbians !
    if you are only attracted to women (romantically and sexually) then you are straight. Porn can get you confuse but know that your attraction to a certain type of pornography doesn't necessarily have to be explain, just enjoy whatever you like watching and don't over think it, good luck ! :slight_smile: