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Not sure

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by madtab, Aug 16, 2015.

  1. madtab

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    17 year old male and not sure about my sexuality.

    I am sexually attracted to females and such but the whole emotional thing isn't there. I believe I have liked a female before emotionally but I am not 100% sure. Now I seem to be more emotionally attracted to males but it is very narrow. I don't think I would enjoy anything sexual with males but am also not 100% sure.

    I am just not 100% sure what that makes me. Emotional and sexual interest seems to be split which is very inconvenient.

    What do you think?
     
  2. Young Blood

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    I would say bisexual, but you have to figure that out for yourself and what feels right to you.
    But to continue, there are three types of attraction: romantic, sexual, and physical. If you feel all or some of these to both genders, to whatever degree, you are most likely bisexual.
    But labels are not a huge thing. I usually just tell people I like who I like :slight_smile:
     
  3. Schloss

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    Welcome :slight_smile: Sexual attraction is the basis and determining factor of sexuality - for most people. I don't know what kind of emotional attraction of men you speak of, though. Do you feel you want to cuddle them, kiss them, and/or hug them? Is it romantic? It's worthy to note that many self-identified straight men can and do become affectionate with other men. Feel free to give a little bit more information to get a clearer answer. :slight_smile:
     
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    Annalize your feelings. Exactly what kind of attractions are you feeling? Remember, things can vary from case to case, person to person.