Jut wondering if y'all could share a bit about that. Because I'm questioning romance and stuff, and while it's not a major concern and I don't expect to know for sure until I get some proper dating experience (soon, my love, soon.... *strokes cat*).. just getting a bit more insight and understanding about it would help me I think! I'm sexually attracted to anyone no matter their gender. But I mostly feel like I'm romantically attracted to guys. Right now I can't really see myself with a girl or an enby. That might be a lot because of self-consciousness over the whole trans thing though... I'm not sure of my, like, innate romantic orientation. And I thought, like, I just wanted to ask... How does it feel to be potentially attracted to anyone regardless of their gender identity or parts? thanks x
Im not sure of the answer, but i am going through somethng similar thinking i might be attracted to some girls. But im waiting until I feel the same about a girl like i do about a guy i see (love/desire or w.e should feel the same on the inside for whoever it is). For a while I thought that the attraction would be different for girls/guys if your bisexual but im trying to treat them exactly the same. And so far, the guy attractions have always felt a lot more er... REAL and the girl attractions always feel more like a curisoty for me. hopefulyl someone can help out who is attracted to both :S
Sexuality can be a very difficult thing to understand. In the presence of men naked or shirtless I can get so aroused I could get off without touching myself. However when I see two women kissing I can get really turned on by that. I can get off on porn of two hot women having sex and I love it. Same way as I can get off on two hot men in porn having sex. I definitely feel two men are very hot but then there is this part of me of what it would be like to be woman and be with a woman. Whether I am gay, bi, or whatever doesn't really matter.
If you're bi-, poly-, or panromantic, you can still have a preference. Lots of people who ID as these have preferences. I have a friend who is pan but almost exclusively likes girls. They also experience attraction to different genders in a different way. For example, my attraction to women will feel different to me than my attraction to genderfluid people. But even then, you could still be heteroromantic and pansexual if you only feel romantic attraction to guys. I hope I could help! Feel free to message me if you have any questions.
I'm biromantic (probably homosexual) For me personally, I feel romantically attracted to boys and girls in a different way... With boys, I get the feeling where the butterflies come and I find him attractive and stereotypical crush. Sometimes they last, sometimes they don't. With girls, the crush only comes after a strong emotional attachment, but it's not like the guy crushes. I guess it feels more intimate and less superficial. Lots of bi/pan people do have a preference, and like levi2000 said, the way we feel romantically attracted may differ on the gender. My girl crushes are rarer but stronger than my male crushes
@levi Yeah, I think I do have a preference for guys romantically... @loveislove That's interesting! I also seem to have more of the butterflies thing etc. with guys. And I can relate to the bit; that I feel like falling for a girl might require more initial emotional attachment. I can't relate to the feeling of it being more intimate or so though. And my guy crushes tend to be stronger, I think. (Not that I have much experience lol :lol: )
