I know i am gay and have know for ages although haven't been able to build up the confidence to tell people. Is this normal?
Everyone goes through this for varying times. It's normal. I have been in this state for a couple of months so far and have only told my most trusted friend. And that took an incredible amount of confidence.
Of course it's normal to not want to tell anyone. There are many reasons to be scared or worried, and it would almost be weird if you weren't either of those things. Most people come out at their own pace, no need to fret over how fast or slow it takes
