I normally hate the idea of dating guys, but I sometimes look at a guy and think I wouldn't mind dating him. Usually happens when he's good looking or seems cool. Why would I be so against dating men most of the time, but ocassionally feel like I'm attracted to them?
Well first, just because you are a lesbian doesn't mean you can't appreciate a man's beauty or attitude. And vice versa for gay men. And I also think there's a big difference between the thought/fantasy of something and the reality of it. Maybe you think you could, but chances are, if the opportunity was given to you, you wouldn't go for it in the end.
I agree with team teal on this. Also, "not minding" dating someone is not the same as enthusiastically wanting to date someone. You probably just think he is cool or good looking.
A few things here, 1 never do anything you just "don't mind" when it comes to relationships, that's a setup to failure. 2 I am sure there are plenty of ladies out there would date you, I've noticed you seem to doubt yourself a lot. Don't! Head up, ladies will come your way. =)
1. I'm not sure if I don't mind it or actually want it. I sometimes get super nervous around those guys and feel like I'm blushing. 2. I don't think so. Maybe if it was me in my avatar. I think girls are more attracted to people who are sure of their sexuality and actually have a life.
Oh hun I do not care about those things, and I know many other ladies who do not. I understand not every woman is sure of herself. I've met some very pretty gals who had no self esteem at all, and were too shy to come to me, so I will go to them. =)
