So I asked a question here earlier about getting erections from gay porn. I thought about the answers I got and I realized that I would be lying if I said that I wasn't attracted to women. I am attracted to their butts and vaginas and in the few times I accidentally touched someone's boobs, I enjoyed feeling them. I thought even more about it and realized that at the moment I just wanted to give someone anal sex. So my question is just can I still be sexually attracted to something if I don't get an erection from it or feel anything "down there" (I almost always at least feel aroused but don't always get an erection) Thanks!
I'm not a guy, but I would imagine that as you gain more experience, in both thinking about and actual touching, it will probably take a bit more of the same/similar experience to bring about the same reaction. I used to be ready to go if my boyfriend looked at me. 20 years into our relationship, it takes a bit more for me to feel the same level of arousal. It's still there, but we have to actually do a bit more for it to kick in. I could be odd though
As a guy, I can say that it is possible to be turned on and not have an erection. It happens to me with some frequency that I am really turned on and can't get hard, or am hard, and then loose it, but am still turned on. I can even come without being hard if I'm turned on enough. However, I'd also say that if you get erect for one thing, but not another, during a short time period (like, say, an hour) it's likely an indicator that one thing turns you on more than the other.
