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Is anyone attracted to one gender way more than the other?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by xvigil5, Aug 22, 2015.

  1. xvigil5

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    So right now my I keep going from bisexual and questioning, and I have a few questions.

    First, are any of you bisexuals or pansexuals attracted to one gender a lot more than the other? I went from being equally attracted to men and women more attracted to women and now I'm at way more attracted to men to the point where I have trouble keeping an erection to women. However, I am more of a heteroromantic.

    Who r u guys more attracted to?
     
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    Yeah, it's perfectly normal, pure "50-50" bisexuals are rare, I myself have a stronger preference for women; but I still also like men and there are days where I like men more as well; it's fluid like that really.
     
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    Women. But I feel the same intensity of attraction to both.
     
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    Yep, girls :slight_smile: But sometimes I have days when I feel attracted to guys more than usual. It's pretty static tbh, and makes me question one day if I am gay or bi, but I guess I just must be bi if it's like that. I would prefer to have a girlfriend but... some guys are just cute :icon_wink
     
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    Yes I mean for obvious reasons I am :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    Sorry I know my reply isn't exactly relevant as I'm not even slightly bisexual or heteroromantic :lol:
     
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    I am way more attracted to women. Like almost exclusively. I can still love guys, but I feel a different level/type of love with them. I feel way closer with women emotionally and I am attracted to them on every level, physically, sexually, emotionally, mentally. However for me it's more about an emotional attraction and bond. Everything else is just a plus for me in a relationship. That's why I identify as homoromantic, but bisexual, because I am still attracted to both men and women on a sexual level.
     
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    I am, definitely. I identify as bihomosexual, which means that I like both genders, but prefer my own. It is a little fluid, with some days I flow more toward women, but usually I like guys more.
     
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    I appear to be most attracted to butch/tomboy women, with significant attraction to certain types of trans men and hairy "otter" men, and less but variable attraction to femme women and other types of men.

    So, yes. I like certain genders more than others.
    (Using the term gender in the sense of gender presentation.)
     
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    I would only hook up with boys temporarily for fun, but I would chase a girl to the ends of the world and love her more than anything else in the world. ^♡^ :slight_smile:
     
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    I am mentally a 50/50 bi weirdo, both romantically and sexually, although my actual sexual experience has been more extensive with men (due to long term monogamy).

    So I guess I would say men, but just through lived experience, not ideal preference. My guess is that I would say women if my long term partner were female, but that is obviously just conjecture at this point.
     
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    Not 50-50 thats for sure. I think my scales tip when I meet new people. If i fancy a girl I just met I kind of forget about my openness to being in a gay relationship.
    I usually say it depends on my mood, and the people around me.
     
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    Yeah, I am kind of that way too. In the presence of hot men who are like shirtless or show some skin I get sometimes so aroused that I feel like I am or will get off in my shorts or pants without touching myself. I do get turned on by hot women like wearing skimpy clothes or cleavage. It doesn't seem as often or as intense as with a man though. However I can fantasize about having sex with women and get off and have even a more incredible orgasm than even a man. Sometimes when I think about naked women or having sex with them and I can get turned on and even erect at times. I tend to think I am around a Kinsey 3 or 4 but probably lean more towards a 4. It seems like it can be hard to tell if I am gay or bisexual. Either term does not scare me one way or the other.