Hi Guys, So aged 23 I finally worked out that I'm not straight. It was something of an epiphany, after 23 years of being entirely convinced that I was 100% heterosexual. It's been a year now. A whole year and I still really don't know what my sexuality is. I've thought for some time now that I am probably completely gay and it's a case of giving it enough time for my brain to come to terms with it. I've flirted with the idea of being gay, straight or bisexual but as I say I'm probably gay. So my question is really meant for anyone who spent a long period of their life convinced they weren't gay..........how long did it take you to realise you're gay and how long did it take you to come to terms with that?