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Straight with open-mind, bi-curious or bisexual?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by howtosavealife, Aug 25, 2015.

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  1. howtosavealife

    howtosavealife
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    Okay this is my fourth, and hopefully final, post on the topic.

    See, i've been coming to conclusions with myself for awhile now, saying that I know it's impossible for me to be lesbian, but maybe i'm bi...And then that didn't sit right...And then I said straight but I thought 'well you like lesbian porn, the first time you saw boobs when you were eight you were turned on.'

    I've been confused on and off for about two years now, I was completely sure I was straight when I was 16 and had a boyfriend, and then the last year I was pretty comfortable with my sexuality again. Now, i'm 17 turning 18 in two months and confused.

    I know i'm only romantically attracted to boys, but ever since I've been having these thoughts, i'm uncomfortable around girls now. Like every girl, aside from my friends. The female body does turn me on naked online, but i've never actually got the thought 'oh, I wanna be on that.' and don't get any of these thoughts if i'm in the same room as my friends and they're changing.

    I know only I can tell, but any input would be great.
     
    #1 howtosavealife, Aug 25, 2015
  2. Hopeful

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    I would try not to label yourself right now. Keep your mind open, and just don't worry about it. You may be straight with some lesbian curiosity which is perfectly normal. You could be bisexual, but you'd probably feel more attracted to women sexually if that were true.

    I could be mistaken - but I hope you just try not to worry about it and keep your mind open to new thoughts or feelings you may have and just enjoy life!
     
    #2 Hopeful, Aug 25, 2015
  3. seahawksfan6

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    I know personally that eliminating labels is easier said than done. Sometimes it's nice to feel like you belong to something. But I agree with the above response, you really shouldn't label yourself right now. It seems to be stressing you out too much. The only advice I have is to live your life and do what feels right and natural :slight_smile: keep your options open always
     
    #3 seahawksfan6, Aug 25, 2015
  4. howtosavealife

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    Thanks to the people who replied so far,if anyone else has anything to say, I would really appreciate it!!! :icon_bigg
     
    #4 howtosavealife, Aug 26, 2015
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