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What orientations am i???

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by actually, Aug 26, 2015.

  1. actually

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    hey. Ok so I've been like really confused lately as to who I am. I've considered myself possibly sexually attracted to both genders, but the other day my female friend kissed me on the forehead and I've been thinking about it a lot. I don't know if I could see myself in a lesbian relationship at all, but it seems like it would add up. Please help!
     
  2. TobaccoFlower

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    Well do you not see yourself in a relationship with a woman or your friend?

    And being bisexual doesn't always mean you're also biro manic, friend. :slight_smile:

    ---------- Post added 26th Aug 2015 at 04:43 PM ----------

    But you know that. So if it helps I've thought the same about myself at times until I realized that most relationships I have with my assigned gender are often Platonic and homophobia, disinterest or realizing off the market tends to force their actions to stay Platonic.
    In other words I get shot down or rejected when I try to firm a deeper relationship with them and their disinterest in turn makes them less appealing to me in a relational way. Make sense?
    But I imagine what it would be like if they were genuinely and romantically interested in me and I feel like it would be nice. So.
    it's all about how you feel In each scenario and that's totally fine either way
     
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    You could just be bisexual AND biromantic. :slight_smile: