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Why are relationships so difficult?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Cubster1980, Aug 30, 2015.

  1. Cubster1980

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    I have not had any real legit relationship. Went out a few times with men and women but it always felt like it revolved around sex. Honestly, I feel like it would be tough because I would be missing out on other sexual opportunities. Sometimes I feel like a big horn dog.
     
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    Yup.... Such is the dilemma of many bisexual folks.
    I struggle with feeling like I might be "missing out" sometimes, too.

    You could always try for an open relationship or a "monogamish" relationship (a term coined by Dan Savage for a committed, long term, mostly sexually exclusive relationship, but with some agreements for occasional sex with other folks.)

    If you want an open or monogamish relationship its important to be fairly upfront about what your looking for with whoever you dating, so you can find the right match.
     
    #2 QBear, Aug 31, 2015
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