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Sometimes Confused Bisexuality

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by bsg75apollo, Sep 7, 2015.

  1. bsg75apollo

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    I hope I don't ramble too much here, but it feels a little difficult to sort out what I want to say. After many years of going back and forth with my sexuality, I have finally sort of gotten to a place of personal acceptance with my sexuality. I can't say it is 100% because I have times where I wobble with it, but most of the time I feel confident with who I am.

    I consider myself to be bisexual. The thing that I still feel odd about at times is that I while I find both genders to be sexually attractive, I tend to be slightly more physically attracted to guys. However, when it comes to the emotional/romantic side, I am definitely more attracted to women.

    I know that sexuality is a continuum and not an either/or situation. But does anyone else feel this way?
     
  2. ebda30

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    Yes, I do. And while I am married to a man, I can't actually see myself ever marrying a man again if we split up.

    I do believe its pretty normal to be more our less sexily attracted to some genders and more or less emotionaly attracted to others.
     
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    Yes, i feel that way, and my feelings and thoughts change sometimes by the hour. Different celebrities, different fantasies, different dreams can alter my preference. Plus, there's a lifetime of pressure to like dudes and media sexualization of women.

    I may never sort it out or know whatdafuk i am :icon_redf oh well
     
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    I am feeling the exact same way. Like I'll just feel lost our alone in the way I am forever.

    I started more, realizing what my attraction to men partly is, and I think its very much learned. When I ignore those weird responses I don't even notice men...don't tend to notice a lot of girls...but I am physically attracted to a certain kind of girl and trends to be way more emotionally attracted to them. Currently have quite the crush on a friend, didn't realize that's what it was until recently, and I feel bad cause she's sooo straight. But also very flirty, at times.