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98% sure im gay, but i dont find guys "cute"?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by AnanasKatze, Sep 8, 2015.

  1. AnanasKatze

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    So I know I'm into a guys...well...parts and body and what not. I know that for sure. But what's weird is that I dont have an attraction to faces, i guess. Not sure if that's normal enough for anyone to know what I mean. But its like, seeing the face of someone my friends will call "cute" and obsess over, it doesnt really do anything for me. I have 2 gay friends that don't know I'm gay, but I hear them talk about some people and I just dont see it. It's something I never noticed until recently. Does this mean anything significant? Is it normal? Or is it something that develops over time? I have no idea.
     
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    I think for myself, its a matter of really opening yourself up and allowing yourself to feeling more attractions perhaps? Growing up I always questioned but it really took someone mind-blowing gorgeous to really catch my eye. Now as I've accepted things more within myself, I notice more things attractive about a much broader range of guys.of course, that's just my take, I don't know for sure how different your situation may be.
     
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    I tend to like the cuteness of a male, their chest, stomach, legs, and butt. I don't care much for penis though. I typically like smooth males but I can overlook it if I like their personality. Women I like their beauty and seductive looks. I like women who can dominate another man. I also like boobs and vagina. Their are also however a number of men and women who can gross me out.
     
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    We all have things we like. I'm not attracted to penises very much, for example. That doesn't mean my male attractions aren't legitimate.
     
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    Thanks for the responses everyone! This cleared up quite a bit for me so far :slight_smile:
     
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    have you just tried staring into the eyes of a guy you otherwise find attractive...making the connection? what does it do for you?