So I know I'm into a guys...well...parts and body and what not. I know that for sure. But what's weird is that I dont have an attraction to faces, i guess. Not sure if that's normal enough for anyone to know what I mean. But its like, seeing the face of someone my friends will call "cute" and obsess over, it doesnt really do anything for me. I have 2 gay friends that don't know I'm gay, but I hear them talk about some people and I just dont see it. It's something I never noticed until recently. Does this mean anything significant? Is it normal? Or is it something that develops over time? I have no idea.
I think for myself, its a matter of really opening yourself up and allowing yourself to feeling more attractions perhaps? Growing up I always questioned but it really took someone mind-blowing gorgeous to really catch my eye. Now as I've accepted things more within myself, I notice more things attractive about a much broader range of guys.of course, that's just my take, I don't know for sure how different your situation may be.
I tend to like the cuteness of a male, their chest, stomach, legs, and butt. I don't care much for penis though. I typically like smooth males but I can overlook it if I like their personality. Women I like their beauty and seductive looks. I like women who can dominate another man. I also like boobs and vagina. Their are also however a number of men and women who can gross me out.
We all have things we like. I'm not attracted to penises very much, for example. That doesn't mean my male attractions aren't legitimate.
have you just tried staring into the eyes of a guy you otherwise find attractive...making the connection? what does it do for you?