When I was trying to convince myself I was straight I forced myself to be attracted to boys. I did sometimes feel stuff, but it felt forced. Now that I feel asexual/confused I do the same crap with girls. How can I stop forcing myself to feel attracted to people?
Hello sporn. Sorry for what you are going through. Well, try to lay off the idea of 'convincing' yourself of your attraction towards girls/guys. When you hang around girls/guys, try gauge who you feel more physically-emotionally drawn, that feels natural to you. The more you try to convince, the more confused you will feel. Hope you feel better
