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I like gay porn, but I'm not sure if I'm bi.

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Anotsure, Sep 19, 2015.

  1. Anotsure

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    So I'm confused as to whether I'm straight or bi, it's really confusing me at the moment.

    Here is some info - I'm definitely attracted to girls, they arouse me, I have been emotionally attached to a girl and I regularly think about them, so no problem there. BUT when it comes to guys, I have a problem.

    When I watch porn video of a man jerking off, I get aroused. Sometimes it's more than others, but I'll usually get a semi-boner and then sometimes get a full boner, I've even ejaculated to it before. A few things though -

    Their face doesn't attract me. I've never seen a guy in the streets, or in porn, that I've looked at and thought to myself that he was cute, but I've done it with girls before (I've gotten butterflies when looking at a really attractive girl as well, never with men.)

    When I think about having sex, or experiment with a male friend, it doesn't turn me on, but when I think about my girl friends, it always does.

    2 men together doesn't seem to work, but solo does.

    I don't seem to be always attracted to gay porn, it seems to be a ''sometimes'' kind of thing, but I feel like it's happening more regularly.

    Does anyone know what's going on? Could it be that because I'm watching someone else jerking off, it makes me want to? I'm very confused right now.
     
  2. loveislove01

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    Porn isn't a great indicator of sexuality, first of all. It's natural for people to get aroused by anything sexual, depending on the person. According to a statistic, lesbian porn was one of the top three searches in straight women.

    You sound like you are straight, from what you have revealed in you post. It does seem like you get aroused because you're wanting to jerk off watching someone else doing so, but only you can know what you're truly feeling.

    Ask yourself these questions:
    Do you fantasize about men sexually?
    Do you find them hot or attractive physically?
    Can you ever see yourself romantically involved with a man?
     
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    I like gay porn as well as straight porn but more so because of the guys in it.

    But if I'm not watching porn, I still fantasize about guys.

    It does say something about where I am on the Kinsey scale, but nevertheless I still identify as gay. Relationship wise, I realize that I only want it with guys and not girls which was essentially the tie breaker for me.

    What do you fantasize about when you aren't on the computer?
     
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    Porn isn't a great indicator of sexuality, you have to examine your feelings outside of it to figure it out.
     
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    I am bisexual like maybe around 55/45 lean somewhat forwards men. However I cannot tell what sex I am into emotionally or romantically. I like being around either sex and think they are almost equally beautiful. I tend to believe women are more physically attractive though I tend to be usually more sexually attracted to males. I like male bodies, faces, butts, but don't care for penises. I like women's boobs, vagina, bodies, and faces. I also do get turned on by beautiful women and some of them have also given me butterflies. If you are bisexual you may be at the low end of the Kinsey Scale maybe around a 1-2. However you decide is up to you though.