I think I'm gay and have thought so for the past 4 years. I get turned on by gay porn and not straight porn, I'm always checking out the guys in my gym class. I'm not sexually attracted to girls, although they are pretty. I have had a straight relationship but I didn't like it. I have also had a gay relationship with a boy I really really like throughout the summer. He ended it promising not to tell anyone. I spoke to my parents about this and they couldn't care if I was gay because they would still love me. Thinking about this gets me distracted from my school work but so does my ADHD. I find myself thinking about that boy a lot. Please help I'm also 13. I'm still young, and have had a recent attraction towards members if the same sex. I also don't find girls that sexually appealing. My previous relationships all went down in turmoil, that is until I met a nice guy who was gay, open and proud he was. So I spoke to him about it and we got into a relationship we never kissed although I wanted to and so did he long story short we broke up and I was devastated. I liked him more than my previous girlfriends. Any advice please. P.s. I'm 14. ---------- Post added 20th Sep 2015 at 10:18 PM ---------- I have also spoken to my parents about it and they are fine if I am because I have a gay Irish cousin. ---------- Post added 20th Sep 2015 at 10:19 PM ---------- I spoke to my parents about it and the are okay if I am because I have a gay Irish cousin.
Mm. Well, definitley sounds like you might be. But let me first state that; what kind of porn turns you on does NOT dictate your sexuality. It's a really bad indicator, so don't base your assumption solely on that. But that aside, it definitley sounds like you might be gay. Hey. I know there seems like there's a ton of pressure to announce sexuality and gender orientation, but don't let it get to you. From what you said, it sounds like you're a lot happier with men. That's alright, embrace it <3 But in the end, no one but yourself can tell you that you're gay. I'd also like to add that your parents are AWESOME. Like, seriously awesome. Oh my gosh Gay Irish Cousin basically describes me xD
