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Gay? Bi? I don't know...

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by bookandquill, Sep 22, 2015.

  1. bookandquill

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    To be honest, I'm not sure whether I'm gay, bi, or somewhere in between. Do I feel "gay" just because I didn't hang out with a lot of guys when I was little? Am I straight, or is it just societal conditioning? And it's not like I've had a lot of romantic/sexual experiences with many people, so I really can't tell. As for now, I identify as gay because that's the way I feel now. But I'm not sure if that will change, or if anything will be revealed. Can you guys help me out here? I'm just confused.
     
  2. lastking

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    Sexuality can be complicated sometimes and fluid. I didn't have a lot guy friends growing up but I don't think that's the reason why I'm attracted sexually to guys. I feel the same way like you sometimes. The way I see it, sexuality isn't always black and white. The best thing is to just go with the flow and avoid labels (for now) if it makes you very confused.